tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1020489254253565556.post4614989455778189231..comments2023-08-17T07:47:19.127-04:00Comments on Tea and Crumpets: home sweet home?Lexilooohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06789424491788958854noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1020489254253565556.post-53175495014405225802009-06-10T00:19:34.971-04:002009-06-10T00:19:34.971-04:00I didn't even read the other comments because ...I didn't even read the other comments because it probably would have swayed me but what I would do is make sure the boy knows you're interested in/thinking of being interested in moving in. Not to tell him that you WANT to but just so that he knows you're not totally anti. <br /><br />In the meantime, look for apartments and look for PUPPIES. Yes! Puppies! Hehe and just go about your life and everything will fall into place. <br /><br />Part of me wants to say 'move in with him' but it sounds like you have a nice little thing going on your own and if it's not broken, don't fix it...yet!Marishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06266549894044350833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1020489254253565556.post-24248878050762002752009-06-09T12:52:12.187-04:002009-06-09T12:52:12.187-04:00I agree with Magda- live your life for you no one ...I agree with Magda- live your life for you no one else. It's not an easy lesson to learn (trust me on this one) but it is the best thing you could ever do. <br /><br />Get that new bigger apartment that you want, get a puppy/ sewing room/ glorious wine rack that makes people swoon with envy. Get everything that you have wanted for yourself that you have been putting off. Most importantly make sure it makes you happy. Then just enjoy your place. Have friends over- make it your haven. <br /><br />In fact revel in your haven. Because it is yours; no one elses. And that can be a wonderful thing. So just embrace it - and leave Steve to worry if you're gonna ditch his new digs for your own styling place!Sommelier0124https://www.blogger.com/profile/05786094537151071113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1020489254253565556.post-54402749725053264162009-06-08T23:41:22.027-04:002009-06-08T23:41:22.027-04:00Ah, the waiting place. I hate that place. Just r...Ah, the waiting place. I hate that place. Just remember that it's only temporary. <br /><br />That said, I'd go forward and move. I like the 6month option from Christy. You could move to Old Town! It would be marvelous! The thing is, you have to live for YOU. You can't just live in this limbo for what's coming. The waiting place is a place to rest, not a place to exist. Do some of the things you want, like hosting parties and sewing and parenting puppies. You will see that these things can either coexist with the boyfriend, and will transition to that next step ... or, if he turns out to be a jerk and I have to kill him, you won't be left with a sucky studio in a waiting-place crime zone. THAT would be just miserable. <br /><br />Live for YOU. Keep the future in mind, but hasn't this waiting gone on long enough? Take charge! You deserve a life, a chance for your interests, too. He has his, in his house. His loss, in a big way, for not inviting you in. But that's no reason for you to suffer in the meantime! <br /><br />xo.magdahttp://magdathunder.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1020489254253565556.post-71835083275207627632009-06-08T17:52:17.563-04:002009-06-08T17:52:17.563-04:00Well I don't know you well at all, but I'l...Well I don't know you well at all, but I'll tell you what I would do in your shoes. You're in your twenties right? I would start searching for a new apartment pronto - preferably with a six month lease option. AND have a very important serious talk with yourself about where you want the relationship with your boyfriend to go. Once you have that all figured out - do you really want to spend the rest of your life with him? Why, Etc? Not just the wedding - the life afterward. Then have a talk with him to make sure you're on the same page.<br /><br />But really - do what you want to do! That's just what I would do. :)Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05615149112130152767noreply@blogger.com